
No Street Cred
Fireworks or gunshots? I donβt know the difference!
I canβt brag about my βstreet credibilityβ
From childhood, my family mostly lived in βinner citiesβ. We were far enough to not be βhood hoodβ!
I never feared walking home alone at night.
I was very carefree for someone with no form of physical protection.
Maybe that was my training ground in a sense. Not much has changed since then.
Bad things can happen in even the best of neighborhoods. I try not to let statistics scare me off.
Criminals target groups and solo travelers alike.
The Dirty South (Safety Drill)
I do understand the importance of having a safety plan.
Do I follow every safety step Iβm listing to the letter? No.
Iβm more of a βpray and goβ type traveler. I truly believe in divine protection.
My audience will all be at different comfort levels. That is to be expected.
New Orleans, for example, has one of the highest crime rates. Ironically, itβs my favorite city.
I have felt safe on each visit.
Nawlins
Essence Festival takes place there and after nightly concerts, all rideshare apps crash from surges.
Most of the large crowd walk back to their hotels.
Iβve done it for each of the 3-night events.
Crime and danger are everywhere.
It is almost impossible to avoid them.
Be aware at all times! Donβt allow paranoia or hearsay to ever stop your adventures.
I traveled to Kingston, Jamaica recently.
I would have missed a cultural encounter of a lifetime had I listened to negativity.
TIPS 1-5
1. Be a vigilant/wise solo traveler
I will not assume or say this is common sense.
I live in Miami. Iβve seen tourists driving with large maps on their laps.
A better alternative for safety is to use your phoneβs GPS and try not to make that too obvious.
You donβt want any behaviors screaming, βIβm not from here!β.
If youβre driving, lock your car doors.
Donβt leave valuables visible.
Baggage Claim
When it comes to purses, βthe smaller the betterβ. This is one of the hardest for me.
I like carrying large totes filled to the brim.
The downside to this is they become heavy and Iβm always looking for places to put them to pose for a picture.
A cross-body /small book bag or fanny pack is lighter and gives you less to think about.

As a solo traveler, you are your own best friend.
You must be fully aware of your surroundings at all times and you canβt do that under the influence of drugs and or alcohol.
Itβs okay to make new friends. Donβt share too much personal information (like how youβre traveling solo)!
Try to familiarize yourself with the basics of the area youβre staying in. (Police stationβs location, nearest restaurants, neighborhood type, distances, and hospitals).
BONUS TIP: Purchase travel insurance.
I donβt pay for travel insurance on every trip. It did come in handy when I injured my ankle on a cruise.
Two in One
2.Organizational Safety
Step twoβs heading is not a typo!
Organization comes naturally to me and I think it is invaluable in solo travel.
Safety and security are twins.
I hope to never feel the vulnerability in realizing your wallet is home. (While you check your carry-on mid-flight.)
I think the trip being βlast minuteβ threw my game off. That just gave my family more to worry about.
Itβs understandable that they have reservations about my solo travel. I hear it in their voices and see the concern in their gazes.
This may be your struggle too. I found a way to help alleviate the worry.
I typed up an itinerary of my whole trip and emailed it to those closest to me.
Make a listβ¦check it twice
If youβre a βplan as you goβ solo traveler, your list may not be as detailed.
I sent full day plans:
- Locations of tours/companies/website links (AIRBNB)
- Phone numbers
- ETA or duration of tours
- Round-trip flight schedules
- Possible βplan Bβ
- Round-trip transportation info (shuttles/times/dates/cities),
- *Time zones
- *WIFI availability times if sketchy
Most websites give you the option to send confirmation to multiple email addresses. From experience, I know that Expedia is one.
This was my first time implementing this safety measure and it was eye-opening, to say the least.
Jamaica is an hour ahead of EST time.
My cousin was worried when I didnβt answer her call.
She was going based on her time zone.
The email allowed her to contact my tour guide to make sure I was ok.
Without this information, her panic wouldβve lasted much longer!
Advance Booking
I tend to book most tours ahead of time and there are pros and cons to this.
Iβm learning to practice more spontaneity. But my forethought came in very handy this time.
It was a good thing my Jamaican dollars and passport were kept separate. I wouldβve never boarded the plane without ID.
Since most of my tours were pre-paid, I needed less money wired to me.
BONUS TIP: Donβt exchange money at an airport.
Airport rates are high. Nearly all major malls have money exchanges.
In some cases, like Jamaica, they may not have all countriesβ currencies. They ordered mine and overnight shipping was available.
I would advise you to verify these timeframes with your local money exchange. Try not to wait until the last minute.

3. Secure the traveling bag safely (see step 2 if you missed the physical bag)
It would have been helpful to have my debit card linked to my cash app. I remove the cards after every transaction for safety purposes.
I donβt know any card numbers by heart.
Western Union has an app that you can connect your debit card to.
TIP: Double-check to make sure you have all monies.
Money Matters
I called all of my banks beforehand to advise them of my travels.
Most companies are doing away with this practice. I would check just in case.
I canβt stress this enough: Have more money than you need.
Flights get canceled and all airlinesβ policies may not include lodging.
I never want to experience sleeping at an airport for hours on end!
BONUS TIP: For international travel, register with the state department STEP. They can offer overseas help on a number of occurrences.
Zip It
BONUS TIP: You can use luggage tags. But since I have them around, I write out my contact info on paper or index cards (name, the physical address of my PO BOX, email, phone #) and seal them in Zip-lock bags.
If you donβt have a PO Box, use your discretion with your physical address.
I put them inside the luggage and the zippered sections.
In case baggage is lost, picked up in error or delayed, I can be reached.
Luggage tags can come off from heavy handling. This is a safety back- up.

- Consider the mobile passport app
- Make copies of your documents, email them to yourself
- Invest in a portable charger.
4.Social Media (Make the proper safety adjustments)
Follow me on FB!
I love social media. Iβm grateful to have a healthy purpose to be on it now.
One tip Iβve learned along the way and held on to is about location safety. I do this even at home.
As a solo traveler, please remember that we are the only ones who have our backs. Most of the time, weβre traveling to places where everyone is a stranger.
Location
If youβre active in the flow of social media land, you βcheck-inβ or post locations.
Itβs safer to do this after youβve left an area.
This way, you determine the time stamp on your posts.
Safety in Numbers
My social media friends are all over the world. I have over 2k across all of them.
It would be impossible to trust all of them.
You never know whoβs watching and what their intentions may be.
Donβt assume your friends/followers are not in or near your vacation spot.
Even with hotels, Iβm a little iffy of βchecking-inβ live.
5. Be a nice/flexible solo traveler
I did not βfeelβ like being nice. My early morning flight was canceled.
The airline rescheduled a connecting flight in Jacksonville. That flight got canceled.
Now I would miss a whole day in Chicago.
I was frustrated. I made a decision I wouldnβt take it out on anyone.
The flight attendant directed me to the airportβs help desk and gave me a hotel directory.
It was a helpful tool and even showed which hotels offered a free shuttle.
I arrived at the hotel with as much positivity I could muster and was automatically upgraded to a suite.
The clerk even threw in food and drink vouchers. Iβm sure if I had an attitude, things would have turned out differently.

Building Blocks of Safety
Throughout my customer service training, it was stressed to build rapport or a connection with the customer. I hated it!
I thought applying my training was enough.
Iβll go above and beyond. But you can stay on hold while I do it.
I stand corrected!
Iβve seen the difference a little conversation makes and itβs not forced anymore.
As a solo traveler, this can help to build allies wherever you may go.
Small Talk
Itβs important, again, to not reveal too much.
I had a tour guide extend her tour to take me to two additional spots.
Without the rapport, I believe the tour wouldβve been βby the bookβ without any exceptions.
Making small talk in Jamaica also stopped the taxi driver from taking me to the wrong location.
Practice if itβs something new.
I thought steps would help me to not be wordy! Wrong! (Obviously).
I hope I was able to help you feel just a little or a lot more safe on your future journeys.
Be alert, be cautious and most of allβ¦.have fun!!!
~Poofβ¦Bee Gone
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24 Comments
Trise
August 24, 2019 at 6:19 pmThanks for the tips! I am thinking about doing a solo trip for my bday, so these tips definitely helped me! I enjoyed reading this post, and LOVE your posts on social media! Keep posting
poofbeegone
August 24, 2019 at 6:39 pmHey Trise, I say go for it and tell me all about it!;) I love following you on social media also. Thanks for the feedback!
Trent Peek
September 13, 2019 at 1:16 pmI enjoyed this post. Thanks for the great read!
poofbeegone
September 13, 2019 at 2:13 pmHi Trent, youβre welcome and thank you!
Kez
September 13, 2019 at 1:23 pmI always get free stuff/extra add ons when Iβm travelling because Iβll talk to anyone that isnβt creepy. This has happened on all 6 continents that Iβve been to.
Thatβs why I love solo travel.
poofbeegone
September 13, 2019 at 2:23 pmHi Kez, did you say free stuff? I need that to start happening on my travels too!!! Awesome! And I agree with the creepiness!
Britt
September 13, 2019 at 3:32 pmItβs amazing how much of a difference just being aware of your surroundings can make. Many travellers get lost in their map or develop tunnel vision focusing on their destination and as a result they tend to miss the obvious signs that something is βoffβ or out of place.
poofbeegone
September 13, 2019 at 6:30 pmHi Britt, thank you! And youβre absolutely correct! Alertness can spare travelers from a lot of harm.
Jojo R.
September 13, 2019 at 5:06 pmPretty good tips. Thanks for sharing!
poofbeegone
September 13, 2019 at 6:29 pmHi, Jojo. The pleasure was all mine!
Emily Adams
October 17, 2019 at 10:02 pmWow, so many actionable tips here. I like what you said about how making conversation can go a long way. Iβve found that to be so true when I travel alone as well. Made some connections at the hostel and instantly had some buddies to explore with.
poofbeegone
October 18, 2019 at 9:29 amHi Emily!
Thank you! Hostels, thats one territory I have yet to conquer!
Lauren
October 18, 2019 at 5:11 am100% always tag a location, especially as a woman, AFTER leaving the location β I totally agree with this. I know some women in the travel industry that have been stalked which is very scary. Great tips here <3
poofbeegone
October 18, 2019 at 9:30 amHi Lauren, yes especially if your page is public like mine!
Pamela Jessen
October 18, 2019 at 1:19 pmGreat ideas and suggestions β I like how youβve focused on the solo traveller, but these ideas cover group travel as well.
poofbeegone
October 18, 2019 at 3:03 pmHi Pamela, thank you so much!!!
Michelle
October 18, 2019 at 5:17 pmGreat tips! Iβve gone one 1 solo trip so far. I was super nervous at first but it ended up being one of my best experiences and definitely felt empowering to know I am capable of traveling solo and having a blast.
poofbeegone
October 19, 2019 at 9:59 pmHi Michelle, kudos to you for giving solo travel a try! Thereβs nothing quite like it!
Chantal Porter
October 18, 2019 at 6:47 pmGreat list of tips! I enjoyed reading this.
poofbeegone
October 19, 2019 at 10:00 pmHi Chantal. Thank you!
Jo
October 19, 2019 at 12:15 pmIβve never travelled solo but I have friends who had done it and enjoyed it!! I commend it- Iβm just an anxious being haha.
Great tips though that would be very useful for a first timer
poofbeegone
October 20, 2019 at 8:27 amHi Jo, hope you build up the courage to do it soon!
Nina | Lemons and Luggage
October 19, 2019 at 5:23 pmTotally agree, especially about not posting locations!!
poofbeegone
October 20, 2019 at 8:26 amHi Nina, thank you for commenting!